Broken Agreement Relationship

Viewing relationship problems as a need for renegotiation and not as a failure on your part or your partner seems much more manageable. I have found that the best and simplest structure of a relational contract is as follows: introduction, contractual elements, signature. Trust is often taken for granted. We rely on trust as the basis for any relationship. If we say to ourselves or our partners: „But you have always been like this __ Who approached you at first) and now you are so ______ (something negative and the opposite of the original property) what we really say: „Wait, you have always agreed to act so that I can avoid some kind of sadness/pain, and now you don`t behave like this and I feel it and I don`t like it.