There are many ways to get started. There are templates online that range from abstract enumeration points such as „We`re going to love each other unconditionally“ to minute details about who feeds the fish, how much, and when. I wanted ours to be somewhere in the middle – specific enough for us to be held accountable, but not specific enough that it would be impossible to follow it. The process that worked for us consists of three main steps. I always thought about the nature of true love when I met Jeff, now my five-year-old friend. Jeff is tall and handsome. Looks like a thinner Thor, especially since he started growing his hair. Jeff was (and is) perfect on paper and in real life – ambitious, successful, great sense of humor, friendly, patient, modest. When we met, I didn`t think of him as a soul mate, and I still don`t. (Maybe it`s because I`m no longer sure I believe in soulmates in the traditional sense, but I`m leaving.) – We agree to defuse our fights with a „pause, I love you, I love you too“, when either of us feels like we are too far into the rabbit hole of defense / feeling triggered or scared These 30 love contract promises are meant to keep your relationship open, honest and fun. We think if you can stick to it, you`d have a pretty amazing one! Start with the letter: „This contract is entered into by and between (YOUR NAME) and (YOUR PARTNER`S NAME).
The term of this Agreement shall commence from the commencement date and shall apply until the end date of the period. #28 I will enjoy our relationship…
